As a person who works in education here in China, I have to say that Chinese parents (at least in Beijing) suck at disciplining their children. I have never seen children more self-centered than the ones raised here. I was out for lunch with my significant-other’s family and some of their friends who happened to bring their children too. If for more than 10-15 minutes they are not the center of attention they start screaming. The parents of course did not try to put them in their place or educate them as to social norms. Instead they entertained their demands. I don’t even want to start getting into the children I see in kindergartens here on a regular basis. I don’t believe the one-child policy is an excuse. Children need to be disciplined and cultivated, not placed into the dead center of their parents’ worlds like they are the emperors of the household. The iPad is not your problem, folks. It’s the attitude with which you approach and educate your children. It’s a great educational tool, I agree, but not the only one. Take them outside to play, yes in the cold even so they can grow stronger bodies. Let them hurt themselves a bit for god’s sake. A few cuts and bruises teaches them far more than you can imagine. There’s no need for mommy and daddy and grandma and grandpa to take junior to kindergarten every day. They don’t need an entourage! Instead of just taking away the ipad (or insert other gizmo of interest) explain why it is taken away. Speak to your children, engage with them and be there for them not as a protector but a guide.

Children have to be let to their interest,this will help the children to cultivate their area of interest in their early stage.later in life there wont be any confusions in their future.